What NOT to do to attract a Man

Question: I know that nobody is perfect, but I feel that some women are able to better attract a man than others (even if they are not better looking). What's going on?

Nikki: Have you ever noticed that sometimes in relationships one partner is way better looking then the other. Sometimes you wonder, how did that even happen? Well there are reasons for it. Though looks are the first thing that draw someone to you, the rest is determined by what you stand for, what your personality is like, and the things that matter to you. From the things I've observed with close Girlfriends, to even family members, I have made a list of the top 5 things that you should try to avoid.
Of course, I'm not saying you need to change who you are as a person, but there are certain things that should be kept to yourself, or with your girlfriends (no matter how close you are with your partner).
                                                                                                                                                                                              


                                                                                               
The Top 5 things to Avoid


1. Cleaning your feet in front of him

• It's very true that almost all men like clean feet, however they do not want to, nor need to see the process of it being done. You can just pretend you are genetically born with stunning feet. What does he care? 

2. Lack of Confidence

• If he is already with you, he's interested. If you are in a relationship with someone, that should be your automatic pass to know that he thinks you are great the way you are. If you are interested in someone, but lack confidence, he won't be interested or may not even acknowledge you. There is nothing to lose with trying a boost of confidence. If it's very difficult for you, sometimes wearing an outfit that just makes you feel comfortable, is the best thing to approach him in. A confident you will show. 

3. Not eating your food on the first date. 

• He will be more conscience that you didn't eat your food, rather than eating the food you ordered. 

4. Playing on your phone while you are out. 

• If you truly have messages that are important, let your date know that you are aware of the behavior, but that it's important you take the call. At least if you tell him that you know it's not polite, he will make less of it. However, if you're just sitting on your phone during the entire night, he will not be interested in taking the relationship much further. 

5. Dressing in a lot of sweats 

• Being down to earth is very different then constantly covering up your body. From time to time, hanging out in sweats is completely acceptable. Just don't expect your partner to be interested for very long, if he can't even show you off when you  go out. 

And always remember one thing- be true to who you are. Don't be with someone who expects you to change completely. That just means you are not right for each other. If you're an opinionated person, and he can't appreciate that, you shouldn't stay in that relationship. Know your grounds, first. The simple things can be tweaked.