Make the Romance Last

Question: My Boyfriend and I are Best Friends, but how do I make sure it also stays Romantic? I don't just want to be his "bud."

Nikki: Have you ever noticed people either have the problem of
A. Their partner just wants to have sex, and doesn't take it further.
B. You get too comfortable with one another, and the chemistry isn't fun anymore.
Either option isn't the best of times. One of the reasons couples take vacations is because it allows for them to reconnect with one another. They can try new things that they don't normally do when they're home doing the same routine. Unfortunately, we all don't have the luxury of taking vacations whenever we want (and if you do, more power to you!). Therefore, it's important to find ways ways to relax and try new things with one another.

Cooking- Trying new recipes, and making a Romantic meal once a week, is a great way to add variety to your relationship. It will give you both the opportunity to see what you like/ don't like. It always leads away from the typical "work day" conversation.

Classes- Take something new together. Whether it's dancing, Rock Climbing, Yoga, Hiking, writing books. Find something you both like, and try it out.

Quiet Days- It's really important to sometimes shut out the hectic days. I'm not saying do this everyday, and let's be honest, it's not always easy. But if you can find your easy day, and use it to spend quality time with one another, then that can always rekindle the spark.

Be Romantic- it doesn't have to be anything dramatic, and over the top. Light some candles. Take a picnic together.

And remember- it's okay to be a little mysterious about things. Keep your favorite episode of Kardashian  to yourself, and your new ideas on life with him.