After it's 'Facebook Official'

I've noticed a few things about couples after they've been with each other for a while: They get too comfortable with one another, and lose their spark. 


In one of my classes, I ever heard a woman telling another classmate that she used to be really proper when she first met her boyfriend, and now she burps in front of him all the time.
When has it been okay to burp, chew with your mouth open, and act like a man in front of you man? 
When you act like another 'dude' for your boyfriend, he will naturally find that lady-like woman next to you attractive. His eyes will begin to wonder, and you will get jealous, and wonder why.

The 4 best ways to keep it special
1. Have a technological free conversation for at least 30 minutes a day.
This is not meant to talk about your to-do list. But how was your day. The things you did. Who you talked to. 
2. Do not turn the television on in the bedroom.
There will be no meaningful sex, after you've watched an hour of sitcoms. Keep the television in your living room, and leave your bedroom for sex. 
3. Once a week each of you should pick something spontaneous to do.
Having  picnic, eating out at the first place you met, seeing a concert, skipping a day of work (....)

It's work. With the right person, it's always well worth it.